This young man, in his 20s, came in for a consultation. He was extremely nervous.
The reason for his visit was that he had recently had his first sexual experience and felt it hadn't gone well. He had tried again, with someone else, and the outcome had been similar. Because of this, he thought something might be wrong with him.
This man, in his 40s, came in for the first time. It was a Sunday, and his back was in a lot of pain. He explained that he had bent down toward the floor, grabbed onto something, and twisted his lower back, feeling pain immediately.
This man, in his 40s, came in for a massage. He had a fairly large belly and, over the course of our conversation, I learned he didn't exercise at all.
This man, 40 years old, came in for a massage. He told me he was able to control ejaculation fairly easily. As always, I wanted to understand how he did it.
As we talked, I realized he was using the most traditional, simple method: stop, withdraw, wait until things calm down, and start again.
