It's common for clients to hear "tantric massage" and immediately jump to something else in their minds. That was the case with this client, in his 30s.
Our initial conversation was extremely polite and respectful. It was his first time, and he'd come on a friend's recommendation. He was going through a difficult period, life had become nothing but work, work, and more work. The only "time to relax" he really knew was, in practice, more work.
The massage went smoothly and calmly, until I began working on the genital area. At that point, he completely lost his composure. He offered money in exchange for sex, pushed the point insistently, and even tried to get up and grab me. I stayed firm, and none of it worked.
After a shower, he calmed down and came back to himself. He apologized for his earlier behavior and showed genuine gratitude that no sexual contact had taken place, something he admitted he would have regretted and felt terrible about the next day.
He said, with real conviction, that he hadn't come looking for sex, but that in that specific moment, something in him had simply switched off.
Situations like this are a reminder of just how essential it is to keep firm, clear boundaries, even when a client, in a moment of impulse, tests them. In the end, that same firmness is also what protects the client from a regret he later recognizes, and is grateful for, himself.
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